You're watching this video because you wanna learn how to get out of the friend zone. Let me guess, you like a girl and she's not taking you seriously. Well, I'm gonna teach you the four-step plan on how to get out of the friend zone. Stay tuned.
你正在看這部影片，因為你想學怎麼逃離「朋友圈」。我來猜猜，你喜歡一個女孩，但她不把你當一回事。嗯，我要傳授給你從朋友圈跳出的四步作戰計畫。別走開。
Hey, this is Tripp from TrippAdvice.com teaching you the steps on how to get the girl while still being your genuine self. And today, we're talking about how to get out of the friend zone.
嘿，我是 TrippAdvice.com 的崔普，要教你贏得女孩心的步驟，但同時仍忠於自我。今天，我們討論的是如何逃離朋友圈。
Are you stressed out about the fact that you like a girl and she only sees you as a friend? Now, I'm not gonna beat around the bush. Getting out of the friend zone—it's a lot harder than just avoiding it right from the beginning. But here's a simple plan for you to follow. It's the four-step escape-the-friend-zone plan.
你喜歡一個女孩但她只把你當哥們這件事讓你很焦慮嗎？現在，我沒有要拐彎抹角。逃離朋友圈－－這比一開始就避免這種窘況還難多了。不過這裡有個讓你跟著走的簡單計畫。這是「逃離朋友圈四步作戰記畫」。
Step number one: You have to make yourself less available to her. You see, right now I know what you're doing. You're spending every waking moment with her. You're there for her every single problem. You are available. What happens when you make yourself more unavailable is she starts to miss you, and this creates desire. She's gonna start seeing you with other girls and not paying attention to her every move, and then she's gonna start to think a little differently. I know it seems a little gamy, right? But here's the deal: She has to know that you're not gonna be at her beck and call. And either way, the whole purpose of this is to start building the strength for your ability to lose her.
第一步：你得讓自己比較沒那麼容易被她得到。你看，我知道你現在正在做什麼。你把清醒時的每分每秒都花在她身上。她的每個問題都有你在那替她解決。你是工具人。當你讓自己比較沒時間理她時會發生的事，是她會開始想你，而這就創造出渴望。她會開始看見你和其他女生在一起，而且不在意她的一舉一動，接著她就會開始有稍微不同的想法。我知道這好像有點大膽，對吧？不過事情是這樣的：她必須知道你不會任她使喚。總之，這一切的目的是開始培養你能承受失去她的力量。
Step number two: You have to start flirting with her more. The problem is she's not seeing you as a boyfriend or a potential hook-up. She sees you as a friend—a platonic friend. You need to flirt with her so she can see that you're interested in her for more than friendship. Here's another video teaching you how to flirt with a girl that you can watch right after this one. I'll wait a few seconds so you can put it on another tab on your screen.
第二步：你必須開始多和她調情。這的問題點是她不把你看作男友或可能交往的對象。她把你當朋友－－只有純友誼的朋友。你需要和她調情，這樣她才能知道你不只想和她當朋友。這裡是另一個教你如何和女生調情的影片，可以在這部結束後馬上看。我會等幾秒讓你可以把它放在你螢幕上的另一個分頁。
Step number three: Eventually, you're gonna have to state your intentions and tell her that you like her. You must pull the trigger on this one. If she's not coming after you, she's not getting your hints, then this is your best bet. Do not be afraid to lose her! I know this is the hardest part for guys, but I'm telling you, it's better to not be friends with her at all than stick around and desperately wanna be with her while she only sees you as a friend, which finally brings us to the last step.
第三步：最終，你一定得表明你的目的然後告訴她你喜歡她。你一定得開這一槍。如果她沒追著你，她就是不懂你以前的暗示，那麼告白就是你最可能成功的方法。不要怕失去她!我知道這是對男生來說最困難的部分，不過我告訴你，完全不要和她當朋友比較好，比起黏著她然後迫切地想和她在一起，但她卻只把你當朋友還好，這終於把我們帶到最後一步。
Step number four: Time to move on. Now, hopefully you don't have to get to step number four and maybe she does like you too. But if you do, then remember, you have to move on. You can't continue to fantasize about a girl that doesn't wanna be with you. There's just too many women out there for the taking.
第四步：是時候向前走了。現在，希望你不用來到第四步，而且或許那女生也確實喜歡你。不過如果你真的走到這，那麼記住，你必須向前走。你不能繼續幻想一個不想和你在一起的女孩。還有很多女人可以追。
Start finding other women to be with and learn how to avoid the friend zone, which is a whole other video series that I did, and it starts right here. You can click on that, put that in a new tab, and watch it after this video.
開始尋找其他女生交往還有學習避免好人卡的方法，那是我做的另一系列影片，就在這裡開始。你可以點那，把它放入新分頁，然後在這部影片後觀賞。
But before you get to any of these other videos, I wanna tell you about something that will help you even more, and help you master the skills of flirting and seduction and to avoid the friend zone at all costs. And I put together a free video series all about it. It's called the 15-Minute Super Seduction video course, and I'm giving this to you absolutely free. All you have to do is click the link right here, or you can click the link in the description box below, and I'm gonna send it to you at no cost immediately. It's gonna show you more advanced touching moves, what to say to turn her on, how to get her thinking about you day after day, and all doing this within 15 minutes. So go ahead, click the link in the description box below and get it immediately.
不過在你去看這任何其它影片前，我想告訴你一件會對你更有幫助的事，並幫助你掌握調情和誘惑的技巧，並不計任何代價避開落入朋友圈。我集結了一系列這主題的免費影片。它叫作「十五分鐘超級吸引力」影片教學課程，我要完全免費提供給你們。你們要做的就只有點選這邊的連結，或你可以在下方資訊欄點選影片連結，我會馬上無償寄給你們。那會教你們更多進階肢體碰觸技巧、讓女生小鹿亂撞的話語、讓她日日想你的方法，全在十五分鐘內傳授。所以快行動，點選資訊欄的連結，馬上取得教學影片。
Thanks so much for watching, and I'll see you on the next video.
謝謝收看，我們下部影片見。
- 「繼續觀賞」- Stay Tuned
Well, I'm gonna teach you the four-step plan on how to get out of the friend zone. Stay tuned.
嗯，我要傳授給你從朋友圈跳出的四步作戰計畫。別走開。 - 「談論」- Talk About
And today, we're talking about how to get out of the friend zone.
今天，我們討論的是如何逃離朋友圈。 - 「緊張的、感到有壓力的」- Be Stressed Out
Are you stressed out about the fact that you like a girl and she only sees you as a friend?
你喜歡一個女孩但她只把你當哥們這件事讓你很焦慮嗎？ - 「拐彎抹角」- Beat Around The Bush
Now, I'm not gonna beat around the bush.
現在，我沒有要拐彎抹角。 - 「關心、注意」- Pay Attention To
She's gonna start seeing you with other girls and not paying attention to her every move...
她會開始看見你和其他女生在一起，而且不在意她的一舉一動... - 「聽命於某人」- At One's Beck And Call
But here's the deal: She has to know that you're not gonna be at her beck and call.
不過事情是這樣的：她必須知道你不會任她使喚。 - 「總之、反正」- Either Way
And either way, the whole purpose of this is to start building the strength for your ability to lose her.
總之，這一切的目的是開始培養你能承受失去她的力量。 - 「繼續前進」- Move On
Step number four: Time to move on.
第四步：是時候向前走了。 - 「不惜任何代價」- At All Costs
...I wanna tell you about something that will help you even more, and help you master the skills of flirting and seduction and to avoid the friend zone at all costs.
...我想告訴你一件會對你更有幫助的事，並幫助你掌握調情和誘惑的技巧，並不計任何代價避開落入朋友圈。 - 「日復一日、每天」- Day After Day
It's gonna show you more advanced touching moves, what to say to turn her on, how to get her thinking about you day after day...
那會教你們更多進階肢體碰觸技巧、讓女生小鹿亂撞的話語、讓她日日想你的方法...
